THE POWER OF SPEECH
“In yoga, speech is a feminine force called the Devi or Goddess. Speech is seen as feminine in acknowledgement of its ability to bring things to life. We constantly use the power of speech to create the world we live in – it can be boring, full of anxiety and disasters, or it can be full of joy and positive experiences. How you describe your life is how it will be. We are responsible for our speech and the effect these words have on others.” (Swami Radhananda’s Living the Practice)
In a previous blog I described the habit I was cultivating in order to counteract the running commentary of my inner (maniac) roommate. I took my spiritual practice to the pool and focused mind, breath and physical activity on positive messages like peace, joy and calm, which then expanded to include words such as hope, faith, love, tolerance, empathy, healing, forgiveness, compassion and countless other inspiring words.
This was so salutary that I took it out of the pool and into the car, and then it progressed into my day in general, repeating any such words as seemed to counteract my automatic inner speech. When I saw somebody or something which I was tempted to judge, I overrode that tendency with words like “tolerance, acceptance, humility”. In cases when I was inclined to make a snarky remark, say, about the way someone was doing something differently from me, I ran words like “patience, appreciation, trust”, in my head instead.
This morning, feeling down a quart energetically, the words I repeated en route to and from my swim were “positive, upbeat, optimistic, healing, adventurous”, and, finally, “wish-fulfilling”. The impetus to do this mental reprogramming-by-repetition came, in large part, from reading Swami Rahdhananda’s chapter on the Power of Speech:
“This life is the opportunity to practise. By repeating sacred words the mind and heart become filled with mantra and even your everyday speech begins to hold power. Then you have a connection to the Devi in her mantric form; she is always there encouraging and helping you. If you repeat the mantra, drawing on all your emotional force, you will passionately engage in the practice of life.”
I initially understood that by “sacred words” Swami Radhananda meant mantras contained in wisdom texts such as the Vedas, the Mahabharata, and the Bhagavad Gita, and sung by their adherents for hundreds of years, theoretically accumulating strength as they went, and bequeathing that power on sincere devotees. Having chanted a healing mantra consistently for over two decades has given me a reliable way to dispel strong emotions and set intentions for the day, including the goal of sending healing vibrations to anyone I know to be suffering. Because of this desire to mitigate others’ suffering it was natural to use “peace, calm, joy, empathy, strength, courage, patience, etc.” whenever I thought of a particular person or situation that I hoped to alleviate in some way.
That the words I was using to direct energy or override any negative inner speech could be considered sacred didn’t immediately occur to me. But why wouldn’t they be? While studying and teaching the ancient yoga texts I often balked at the use of unfamiliar words like Surya Namascar, Uttanasana, and (the mouthful) Virabhadrasana while introducing a pose, and often didn’t bother. Saying “sun salutation, forward fold or warrior one, two or three” gave the same message in a more accessible way. In like mien, is saying “strength, courage, or perseverance” any different than saying “Aum Namah Sivayah”, a powerful mantra for overcoming obstacles? Which is my way of saying that you don’t have to have a regular mantra practice (but it helps) or maintain any consistent spiritual practice (but really, it helps) or tracking your footprints in a spiritual journal (but it really, really helps), so long as you can make an ally of your speech. And here’s why:
“Speech has a tremendous effect on the direction of our mind and the evolution of our life. We must respect and take responsibility for what we say audibly and inaudibly. By refining our speech we can also open to a sacred potential beyond speech, the gift of the Devi, the knowing of the heart.”
To me the “knowing of the heart” is the Holy Grail, the summa cum laude (to use other obscure words) of all personal growth. The layer upon layer of misconceptions and conditionings and general misdirections need to be patiently, conscientiously and relentlessly peeled away from the essence that is common to us all, were we but free to see it.
And a latecomer to the game, which occcurred to me while in the passenger seat as our vehicle crawled in the six-lane-bumper-to-bumper traffic on Georgia this mid-afternoon:
SILENCE IS GOLDEN.