PEACE, PEACE, PEACE
“The most powerful love is to support and encourage others toward their highest potential. When there is an imbalance in the world, and we want to take the steps to move forward, it is love that will protect us. There is nothing so powerful as being able to see the Divine in everyone you meet, to offer love and Light, to envision people living in peace within themselves and with their neighbours, to send out loving-kindness to all.” (Swami Radhananda Living the Practice)
Not long ago an eighteen year old band-mate of my grandson was killed in a motorbike accident. The fact that the deceased was more of a passing acquaintance initially gave my grandson a degree of immunity to the sense of grief and loss being experienced by those closer to the young man. This immunity was breached when my grandson went to the celebration of life and witnessed the collective mourning of the large gathering of his friends and family. Being involved in many activities, the loss of this young man brought together a broad swath of the population, and, even now, as white ribbons flutter along the railing of the Stanley Park Causeway where the accident took place, few motorists could be oblivious to the somber warning that life can change in a heartbeat.
From the remove of merely being a fellow West Vancouverite, home of the grieving family, I yet have no sense of immunity from my own feelings — the intense heartbreak I know I would feel if I were to lose one of my own — and needing no imagination whatsoever to guess what this young man’s friends and family are suffering. Not having attended the funeral but feeling a great deal of empathy, it’s been a challenge to find positive or appropriate ways to channel that grief-freighted energy.
How to offer care and encouragement to people so far out of my reach? How to respond to what Chuang Tzu called the 10,000 joys and 10,000 sorrows without spiraling down a rabbit hole? Swami Radhananda has this to offer:
“When we look outward at situations in the world, we often feel that we have no control, no ability to effect change. But we can go back to changing our world within – where we do have the ability to change. We can change how we use our intellect and emotions so that we are not swept up by outside forces. When we harness the emotions and intellect, we can gather facts and mobilize ourselves to actions rather than getting stuck in reactions.”
So the other morning I decided to take my spiritual practices to the pool. I harnessed my emotions by coordinating these with my breath and the physical action of swimming. With each inhalation I mentally said the word peace, figuratively drawing peace into my entire being, and then exhaling peace, peace, peace to the area around me. After a time I switched the repetition to calm, calm, calm, then joy, joy, joy, and followed with what other healing words came to mind. Swami Radhananda calls this the ripple effect:
“It is essential to take the time to have a spiritual practice. Through devotion to your inner life you will find that your awareness and caring will naturally expand and ripple out toward others in your community. It is important to take time to be grateful for the relationships and communities we are part of.”
Even something so simple as coordinating my intentions with my breath with my physical actions has had a tangible effect on my psyche. As I go about my day I think of small ways to pay forward the peace and harmony and ease of well-being that I generated while swimming. One can do the same with many other daily routines that are often performed mechanically or half-heartedly. One can clean a drawer or sweep a floor with the intention of ridding the mind of unwanted clutter and negative impressions. One can clean glasses, windows, phone or computer screens with the intention of increasing insight and cultivating clear-eyed thinking.
And in all things a reverence for this precious life and gratitude for the people who have supported and encouraged me is bound to ripple positivity into my surroundings.
Aum Shanti, Shanti, Shanti